November 20, 2011—Nicholas T. Fetchko Day!

Today we come together to focus our attention on a beloved Prayer Registry child,  Nicholas T. Fetchko who passed on November 20, 2010.


Dear Prayer Giver,


Take a moment to sit down and bring all of your awareness into this sacred present moment. Allow your thoughts and cares of the day slip away from you now as you enter the present moment completely. Slowly take in a deep breath and slowly let the breath out; breathing in deeply and exhaling fully. And again, inhale slowly and exhale thoroughly.


As you read these words, take the time to really feel and think about what you are saying, for this is indeed a sacred moment.


Dear Nicholas We The Prayer Team, are with you now in thought and spirit. We send you energy and love from our souls to yours and we pray that you will feel it and know how very loved you are.


Meditation/Visualization: —continue to sit comfortably and allow yourself to be here in the present moment, letting go of your cares and worries of the day.


Now, bring all of your attention to the tip of your nose and imagine that you are the gatekeeper at the gates of a big city and that it is your very important job to watch the coming and the going of your breath.  Simply focus all your concentration at the tip of your nose and observe your breath as it enters and leaves you.


As you breathe-in, focus on the feeling of the breath as it enters your nostrils

As you breathe-out, focus on the feeling of the breath as it leaves your nostrils

Breathing-in feel the breath coming into you

Breathing-out feel the breath as it leaves you.


Continue to focus on your breathing

If your mind wanders away going off into thought (which is common in meditation) gently bring your focus back to the tip of your nose and resume your position as gatekeeper, watching the coming and going of your breath.


As you breathe-in feel the cool air as it enters your nostrils

As you breathe-out feel the warm air as it leaves your nostrils

Breathing-in cool, breathing-out warm

Breathing-in cool, breathing-out warm

In cool, out warm…in cool, out warm.


Now as you breathe-in, envision Nicholas

standing in the light before you

As you breathe-out, envision Nicholas looking vibrant and well



As you inhale, envision drawing energy into you

As you exhale envision directing that energy to Nicholas

As you inhale continue to visualize energy entering into you

As you exhale see this energy flowing outward from you and surrounding Nicholas

Bathing him in light and loving energy

See him surrounded by energy

See him smiling

See him laughing

See that he is happy and free.


As you breathe-in feel that you are strengthened by this energy

As you breathe-out direct this feeling of strength to Nicholas’s family

As you breathe-in draw peace into yourself

As you exhale send that feeling of peace to Nicholas’s family.


Dear Nicholas, We all see you smiling and glowing in the light. May you know that LOVE, the one universal sustaining force, is being sent to you right now and always will be. May you feel it and know that love is without end. You will always be loved and you will always be remembered.  Love to you dear one. Peace be with you Nicholas. We love you, The Prayer Team.

About sheriperl

I am a spiritual healer, a writer, a teacher, a potter and a wife and mother. My work has always been in spiritual healing but since 2008 I have focused more on bereavement as I lost my 22 year old son Daniel to an overdose on July 1, 2008.
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16 Responses to November 20, 2011—Nicholas T. Fetchko Day!

  1. Peace be unto you and your family. May your light continue to shine for your family.

  2. Beverly, Donnie's Mom says:

    Dear family of Nicholas: I have been on my grief journey for 12 1/2 years now and must tell you I have found peace, taking my loved one with me in a new spiritual way. He is always around! I am reading “Never Letting Go” by Mark Anthony, and what comfort it brings! I recommend it to all who have lost a child. May you feel your precious loved one near you during the most difficult times. They want you to know they are fine and they send you LOVE. Love never dies!

  3. maty says:

    Dear Nicholas,parents,family and friends ,im sending out my prayers,love and thoughts on such a difficult day . Our precious children are always with us in our hearts and in spirit , they are always at our side giving us the comfort we need . One day we will meet up with them for ever , nothing whatsoever will separate us again . Peace Love and Light.Maty.Chris mom.Hugs

  4. rheumnp says:

    to the beloved friends and family of Nicholas. Sending loving hugs and prayers your way today. One day we will be reunited with our beloved children and that will be a glorious day.
    Shirley – mom of Dimitri 7/13/87 to 8/9/10

    • Isabelle Efstathiou says:

      Dearest Shirley,

      Sending you lots of Love and hugs, sorry I missed the day but I do light a candle everyday for my angel Natassia and for all the angels on this group.

      A Candle being lit for your child today…
      .¸.☆¨¯`. (
      …¸.☆¨¯`|♥♥♥|Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ May you feel a gentle breeze, Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
      ¸.☆¨¯`|♥♥♥|☆As your child whispers in your ear… ☆
      ¸.☆¨¯`|♥♥♥|Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ I know you miss me Mommy, Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
      ¸.☆¨¯`|♥♥♥|☆but I’ll be watching over you now ☆
      ¸.☆¨¯`|♥♥♥|Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Go look up at the stars, Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
      ¸.☆¨¯`|♥♥♥|☆I’m the one, Glowing right above your head…☆
      {John 16:20-24}
      ☆♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥☆ Peace, Comfort, & Hugs to the Family… ☆♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥☆

      With Love to you and your family.

  5. Jo Bowyer says:

    Dear Nicholas, may you be surrounded by light and love, and may your family be comforted by feeling you near to them. Love can cross all barriers. Our children are our children always and the time that we are in this incarnation without them will seem as but a twinkling of an eye when we are reunited with them
    Love from Shane’s mum

  6. sheriperl says:

    To Dearest Nicholas and his family,
    May you all feel the love from our prayers
    May you all be lifted by the energy from the prayers
    Nicholas, may you feel the presence of your family’s love
    Family, may you feel the presence of your boy!

    Much Love,
    xoxo Sheri—Danny’s mom forever xoxo

  7. Debbie Polidora says:

    To Nicholas’ family and friends,

    Sending hugs and prayers to you today, Nicholas’ angel day, hoping that the day is gentle for you, my friends. I know how difficult these days can be to get through. My heart to yours,

    Mom to ^i^Joey (10-31-81–6-20-08)
    Lorin, Mike, & Greg

    Another day without you, another tear silently falls
    I have grown accustomed to an aching heart and false smile
    But I will never grow accustomed to life without
    My precious son Joey

  8. Shari says:

    Sending my thoughts and prayers to Nocholas family today.
    Peace, love and light.

  9. To Nicholas, I hope you feel the love from so many lifting you and surrounding you. You are loved so much. To Nicholas’s family and friends, I hope you feel the prayers we all offer for you and that they give you some comfort on this difficult first anniversary of Nicholas’s passing. We are here for you always. Love, Geraldine

  10. CARLA MORGAN says:

    Nicholas and Family: May you all continue to be lifted by prayers and keep believing that Nicholas is near and happy. He still loves you and will always be near and is waiting until you all can be together again.
    Charles’ Mom

  11. Heavenly Father,
    I humbly come to you and pray that you will wrap the family, friends and community of Nicholas in a blanket of comfort as they reflect on the precious life you created and gave eternal life. As a mother who has lost a son, I understand their loss and I pray they will find peace knowing that this child of God is sitting at the feet of Jesus listening intently as he has all of his questions answered. I pray that the heavenly trumpets are playing a special song for him and the streets paved with gold lead him on beautiful, heavenly journeys. I pray the family will turn to you in their grief and allow you to carry them through these difficult days where they miss their precious child. I pray all these things in your heavenly name. Amen.

  12. milly01 says:

    To the Family and to Nicholas,
    We the Prayer Team,
    Are with you now in thought and spirit, We send you energy and love from our souls to yours and we pray that you will fee it, and know how very loved you are!

  13. Nancy Ikeler says:

    Dearest Nicholas and your Precious Family,
    We send much Love and Light to you and Peace and Comfort to those who are missing you. May your hearts feel the Eternal Love that proves LOVE NEVER DIES. From our hearts to yours and all the Precious Prayer Registry Children,
    Love and Light and Peace Always,
    Nancy, David, Derek, and Julie~Danny Gunn’s Family Forever

  14. Kelly says:

    Nicholas. Please know that you are so loved. I pray that you can feel all the love and peace being sent to your from your family, friends & this prayer group. You are never forgotten.
    Trevor’s Mom

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