November 20, 2012— Nicholas T. Fetchko Day!

Today we come together to focus our attention on a very beloved Prayer Registry Child: Nicholas T. Fetchko passed on November 20, 2010.



Dear Prayer Giver,


Take a moment to sit down and bring all of your awareness into this sacred present moment. Allow your thoughts and cares of the day slip away from you now as you enter the present moment completely. Slowly take in a deep breath and slowly let the breath out; breathing in deeply and exhaling fully. And again, inhale slowly and exhale thoroughly.


As you read these words, take the time to really feel and think about what you are saying, for this is indeed a sacred moment.


Dear Nicholas,


We The Prayer Team, are with you now in thought and spirit. We send you energy and love from our souls to yours and we pray that you will feel it and know how very loved you are.


Meditation/Visualization: —continue to sit comfortably and allow yourself to be here in the present moment, letting go of your cares and worries of the day.


Now, bring all of your attention to the tip of your nose and imagine that you are the gatekeeper at the gates of a big city and that it is your very important job to watch the coming and the going of your breath.  Simply focus all your concentration at the tip of your nose and observe your breath as it enters and leaves you.


As you breathe-in, focus on the feeling of the breath as it enters your nostrils

As you breathe-out, focus on the feeling of the breath as it leaves your nostrils

Breathing-in feel the breath coming into you

Breathing-out feel the breath as it leaves you.


Continue to focus on your breathing

If your mind wanders away going off into thought (which is common in meditation) gently bring your focus back to the tip of your nose and resume your position as gatekeeper, watching the coming and going of your breath.


As you breathe-in feel the cool air as it enters your nostrils

As you breathe-out feel the warm air as it leaves your nostrils

Breathing-in cool, breathing-out warm

Breathing-in cool, breathing-out warm

In cool, out warm…in cool, out warm.


Now as you breathe-in, envision Nicholas

standing in the light before you

As you breathe-out, envision Nicholas looking vibrant and well.



As you inhale, envision drawing energy into you

As you exhale envision directing that energy to Nicholas

As you inhale continue to visualize energy entering into you

As you exhale see this energy flowing outward from you and surrounding Nicholas

Bathing him in light and loving energy

See him surrounded by energy

See him smiling

See him laughing

See that he is happy and free.


As you breathe-in feel that you are strengthened by this energy

As you breathe-out direct this feeling of strength to Nicholas ‘s family

As you breathe-in draw peace into yourself

As you exhale send that feeling of peace to Nicholas’s family.


Dear Nicholas,


We all see you smiling and glowing in the light. May you know that LOVE, the one universal sustaining force, is being sent to you right now and always will be. May you feel it and know that love is without end. You will always be loved and you will always be remembered.  Love to you dear one. Peace be with you Nicholas.


We love you,


The Prayer Team

About sheriperl

I am a spiritual healer, a writer, a teacher, a potter and a wife and mother. My work has always been in spiritual healing but since 2008 I have focused more on bereavement as I lost my 22 year old son Daniel to an overdose on July 1, 2008.
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10 Responses to November 20, 2012— Nicholas T. Fetchko Day!

  1. Tami says:

    Thinking of you Nicholas T. Fetchko, sending loving prayers to your family and friends, my candle is lit in your loving memory.

  2. Shane's mum says:

    Sending love and prayers today for Nicholas and for his loved ones. I pray that he is surrounded by light and love and joy, and that those who love him, and whom he loved, feel his presence always with them.
    Our children are still our children and I think that Sheri is right when she says that love can still flow between us.
    Love from Jo – Shane’s mum forever

  3. Kathy Champagne says:

    For Nicholas, his family and friends. We are all thinking of you today. My wish for your family and friends is a soft day filled with the warm memories of the time you spent with them here. Hugs. Kathy (Bobby’s mom)

  4. Christine says:

    For Nicholas and your loved ones,
    Positive thoughts of love from my heart to you and your loved ones that you all will find comfort and a measure of peace in all the blessings sent your way. To your loved ones, may the never-ending love you have for each other bring you the strength to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Nicholas, please know that your loved ones take you with them wherever they go in this life. No matter how long or short your time shared with them here was, their love is just as strong now as when you were physically with them, time nor distance can change that. Please let your loved ones know you are with them always but especially on this day.

    Jason and Christian’s mom

  5. teresa says:

    Niccolas please be with all that loved you and you left behind today; they need a gentle touch.
    I am sending all my thoughts and prayers today and I hope you feel the waves of love
    hitting you today. Our children are always with us; that can never be taken away; just
    changed a bit. They live on in our hearts, souls, and memories.
    Much love,
    Curren’s mom

  6. Debbie Polidora says:

    To Nicholas’ family and friends,

    Sending hugs and prayers to you today, Nicholas’ angel day, hoping that the day is gentle for you, my friends. I know how difficult these days can be to get through. My candle will be lit in remembrance of your precious son. My heart to yours,

    Mom to ^i^Joey (10-31-81–6-20-08)
    Lorin, Mike, & Greg

    Another day without you, another tear silently falls
    I have grown accustomed to an aching heart and false smile
    But I will never grow accustomed to life without
    My precious son Joey

    Having a son in heaven changes everything.

  7. Harriet Gutter says:

    My heartfelt, positive vibrations to Nicholas, his friends and his family. Nicholas used to be here, but now he is everywhere. The love he left behind will never die, and he lives on as long as he is remembered. Remember him with love today and always. Harriet Gutter, Adam’s sad mom

  8. Shari ~ Forever~ Danielle's~ Mom says:

    Sending my thoughts and prayers to Nicholas’s family today.
    Wishing you peace love and light.

  9. sonja carassai-haus says:

    Sending prayers, love, and light to Nicholas, his family and loved ones on this anniversary day–a day Heaven gained one beautifull angel and the lives of those left behind were altered forever. Nicholas you will be loved and adored for eternity and missed forever until you and your loved ones are reunited over the rainbow bridge! Love never dies, it only grows stronger on either side of the veil. I pray your family and friends can feel your presence with them every day, but especially today. To Nicholas’ family and loved ones…may the memories you created while your angel walked with you on your earthly journey bring peace to your heart and soul. Count your blessings that you were “chosen” to share your life with him; no matter how short the time was!

    With Love,
    Sonja–Jon-Jon’s mom forever!

  10. maty says:

    Sending love and prayers to Nicholas . I hope his parents and loved ones had a peaceful day . Im sorry im a day behind , time doesnt exist on the other side …….. Our loving children are always at our side and im sure you felt your loving son closer than ever . One Blessed day we will be reunited . Peace Love and Light . Maty Chris loving mom . Hugs

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